However much you have been wanting and hoping and dreaming of meeting the person of your dreams, it is only when you meet them that you will start missing them. It seems that the presence of an object is required to make its absence felt (or to make the absence of something felt). A kind of longing may have preceded their arrival, but you have to meet in order to feel the full force of your frustration in their absence. Adam Phillips
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  1. Have patience. All things are difficult before they become easy.

  2. Roam abroad in the world, and take thy fill of its enjoyments before the day shall come when thou must quit it for good.

  3. However much you study, you cannot know without action. A donkey laden with books is neither an intellectual nor a wise man. Empty of essence, what learning has he whether upon him is firewood or book?

  4. People are crying up the rich and variegated plumage of the peacock, and he is himself blushing at the sight of his ugly feet.

  5. Whatever is produced in haste goes hastily to waste.

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